Guys should definitely be the first ones to make a move coz 'they are the predators and females are the prey... so as nature intended they must go after their prey.
Jo-Ann Says:
A guy should make the first move! Call me old-fashioned, but that's just the way it is. I don't want guys to think I'm throwing myself at them.
savannah Says:
it is much sweeter and safer for the guy to make the 1st move... but it's not wrong for a gal to do so... be braver gals!! don't rely on boys for everything!!!!
BUSI BUKWANA Says:
I think any one is legible to make the move so long as they have the courage to do it and if a person believes guys should come to them first that means they won't be honest about their feelings and the boy could be snatched by someone with more confidence.
nokuthula gladness mahlobo Says:
I think if you like someone regardless of whether you are a girl or a guy, you should be the one doing the asking out because maybe the other person is shy or maybe they think you don't like them. So to be on the safe side ask away! If they say yes, it's a great confidence booster. If they don't, then it's their loss. Pick yourself up and have fun!
Siphokazi Malinga Says:
I think that if you like someone, regardless of what your sex is, you should make the first move. Guys find it so flattering when girls make the first move so go for it girls. Then again, this doesn't mean guys must be complacent
farah Says:
I think some girls are shy, so a guy should.
Terri Says:
Well, if we going to wait for the guy to make the first move, will anything ever really happen? If you want something go for it, the same with a relationship.
Micaela Says:
I think is must definitely be the guy, because that is the way I was brought up. A girl asking a guy makes the girl look cheap or really desperate. I just think the guy should be asking, it's just better that way, and that way you would know if he is really in to you.
Ayesha Says:
The guy should like totally make the first move, it shows that he's a MAN!
kristy Says:
Definitely the guy, it is always cheap, tacky and desperate for a girl to ask a guy out.
yogie Says:
They say its the 21st century so girls should do it also. Well I say stick to the 19th century sweety, its safer that way. Trust me, when you're in the relationship they start getting all big headed and you don't want him blowing his own horn now do we...
lital yerushalmy Says:
The majority of you say the guy should ask the girl out, but what if you get one of those guys who is very shy, they wont admit who they like. I think the majority of the time guys should make the move. But what the heck girls, if you want to, you should! If you like a guy who is shy, you should try making a move. It all depends on the person and how they act!
serishka singh Says:
I think it is fine if either of them makes the first move, times have changed and so what if the girl makes the first move. You shouldn't care about what other people have to say about you. As long as you know who you are and you know what you stand for.
Andrea Koekemoer Says:
OMW, those guys are too sweet! Especially the last two ones, they seem like the kind of guys that you could just chill with and have a good laugh. Oh and guys should definitely make the first move.
tastika chunderdoojh Says:
In my opinion I think that girls should make the first move. it proves that they are strong and independent and know what they want. ;)
tshepiso Says:
Guys are the first to make a move & it is normal for them.
Aleya Banwari Says:
Well from the video I think that each guy is different but I don't like what the 1 guy said about girls coming up to guys & then the guys think that they're cheap. It's just that maybe that the girls might have more guts to make the first move, no offense to some guys but that's the truth & I've had a first hand experience of that.
Ethel Maluleke Says:
guys guys guys make the 1st move no matter what because it's the way we girls get to know that we are noticed and that somebody somewhere is keeping an eye on me. Most of the girls are shy and scared to approach guys this thing was made for guys.
tshepiso 22 Says:
I think it's 50/50 nowadays the one who's burning must start first no matter if its a gal/boy. Wake up girls majita a sele maleme so balateng
Nnditsheni Tshikosi Says:
the guy
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