My GF of two years cheated on me. Should I take her back?
30 Apr 10
Do you think cheating is forgivable after two years of dating?
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Namhla Says:
No you shouldn't, if she can get away with it once, she'll do it again!
Jake Says:
No way, after this you will always feel like she is not true to you trust me I have been there my gf of 6 years did that to me
Charissa Says:
NO!!!!Who says she won't do it again??I'm sorry to say this but if I were u I wouldn't do it, just some friendly advice
Dr.Phil Says:
Well I believe after two months it might be ok but after two years dude. No. Who said that's the first time? That might be the first time you found out.
Ntsako Ndlebe Says:
Noooo! Once a cheater always a cheater
JADE MANGGOS Says:
if I were you I would not take her back, if she cheated on you once then whats to say she wont do it again. If you did take her back you will think constantly that she is doing it again. It will also be hard to trust her as well. There is someone else out there who deserves you and will treat you better.
drucila Says:
No cheating is not acceptable at all. Once a cheater always a cheater.
Zuhrah davids Says:
Yes, everything happens for a reason and maybe this is the wake up call your relationship needed.
Work on improving your relationship and pick up the broken pieces and build a new bridge with her.
Maggy Says:
Nah dawg! She knows what she's was doing. She did it once so why won't she do it again. Puff. SHE SUCKZ SO BAD.
Cn0 Says:
It happens bru..I say take her back obviously there's something lacking in your relationship. Try finding out from her what made her cheat..
Gabby Says:
Nah bru nah!!! If she cheated on u then she obviously didn't care enough about u! Because she knew exactly what she was doing and what would happen if you found out..stay strong!!!!
Chrissy Says:
No way. Even if you take her back your trust is going to be totally ruined, I would only say yes if you really, really love her and vice versa. Which I doubt cause you are doubting if you should take her back.
Jane Doe Says:
I personaly don't think that cheating in any relationship, long or short, is fair to the other person who really might have cared for you enough and trusted you not to cheat. After two years I wouldn't take someone back if they cheated on me...
Juene Ferreira Says:
Yes I think you should give her another chance. Maybe you weren't there for her. It takes years to build up a good relationship and it takes that one second to destroy it. If you felt hurt when she did that to you it means you really love her and you probably don't want to lose her. She probably feels really bad and if she wants to get back you should get back but with terms and conditions. LOL. goodluck
Khanya Mlisana Says:
Nah I don't think taking her back would be any good for you guys in the near future because when you go through your ups and downs again, the fact that she cheated on you will always remain, then you'll wonder why you took her back.
KHATHU Says:
People make mistakes, I am sure she has learned from it. Everybody deserves a 2nd chance. I say you take her back and work on your relationship and the best place to start, find out why she cheated and work on that
Nikita Lagler Says:
Honestly you shouldn't take her back cause if she knows she can get away with it the first time why wouldn't she do it again? Believe me I know a few guys who took their cheating girlfriends back and they just did it over a couple of times, oath once a cheater always a cheater
Shaz Correia Says:
No you shouldn't because maybe she did it so that you'd break up with her or maybe she got bored with the relationship.. just move on and have fun-be friends with benefits, then this kind of stuff wouldn't affect you
Johanna Salkeus Says:
NO! NO! & NO! her cheating only means that shes tired of you and wants to experience the "good life" out there with other guys. If you do forgive her and continue your relationship, you'll only get your heart broken again and Im sure you dont want that to happen.
roxy Says:
I don't believe in once a cheater, always a cheater. What she did was obviously not cool but she did come out with it I presume and by doing that she knew the risk envovled that you might break up with her. Consider the fact that she was honest and despite popular belief, people can change. It's that or she got bored of the relationship and you both should probably just call it quits. But if possible, remain friends at least. It's been two tears after all.
Lara Says:
no way! if she really cared for you, she wouldnt of cheated in the first place.
Letitia Says:
Maybe she did it just for the fun. It doesnt mean when she cheats on you she doesnt love u anymore. Give her a second chance, everyone deserves a second chance.
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