Your ex-BF of one week ago is also your cousin's GBFF and you're bound to run into him.
A. I doubt they'll be friends after my speech to my cousin! Everyone needs to break ties with him.
B. I'll avoid him but if I should run in to him I'll keep the talking to a minimum.
C. I don't see the point of arguing – I'll befriend him again.
You've pre-planned a surprise birthday party for a mutual friend before your BF dropped the break-up bomb on you. Now what?!
A. I'll take over the reigns, there's no way I'm allowing him to be a part of this. He is a traitor.
B. I'll get some more people involved so that I don't have to speak to him directly.
C. I'll put it all behind me and move on. He probably didn't mean all those things he said anyway.
Your mom, unknowingly, invited your ex over for a celebratory supper of some sort. Do you put up a scene?
A. I see it as the perfect opportunity to tell everyone about how he treated me!
B. I'd chat to my mom and ask her to reconsider for the sake of awkward vibes.
C. Not at all. I'll even call him up to remind him.
How much do you use social media and does it play a big role your relationships?
A. Social media is my BFF! It's the fastest and most effective way I can let everyone know that I got rid of a jerk.
B. I try to keep my personal business away from the social networks. It's just the safest!
C. Social media was actually how I found out that my ex was cheating.
How long after a break-up do you make the news public?
A. Instantly and I make sure that EVERYONE knows.
B. I need time for myself, so about a week later I'll tell my friends.
C. Only once I'm sure that things are definitely over, do I tell a friend, who'll tell a friend.
You're Done!
Mostly As: Duh-rama queen
You don't let a break-up – however insignificant – slip by unnoticed. In your mind your ex needs to get what's coming to him! Be careful that you don't attract unnecessary drama with a break-up. It could ruin a potentially great relationship/friendship in the future.
You're Done!
Mostly Bs: Keep it subtle
Although you're heartbroken during a breakup, you're not the kind of girl who will make your ex's life hell... well unnecessarily anyway. You'll leave him and his bad habits up to karma (if he's responsible for the break-up). Good going!
You're Done!
Mostly Cs: Easy as (humble) pie
You'll do what you can to save the relationship, but thereafter you'll let it slide. You'll even give it a shot at friendship. You reckon that everyone is entitled to come and go as they please. Be careful that you don't allow him to walk all over you or pass the blame to you if you're not responsible for it. Be polite but stand your ground.