You're drawing up a guest list for your upcoming birthday party. Do you invite your ex?
A. Mostly definitely. He was the first name I put on my list.
B. I initially put his name down but decide that it's not worth all the drama.
C. No way! There's a reason he's called my ex.
How often do you check his Facebook profile?
A. Whenever I log onto Facebook. I'm just curious to know what's happening.
B. Now and then but I'm trying to get rid of the habit.
C. I have removed him as a friend – why would I want to know his business?
How often are you in contact with each other?
A. We make time to SMS or call each other at least once a week, just to touch base.
B. If we chat it would be in the company of mutual friends.
C. We hardly see each other, but when we do, it's just 'Hi' and 'Bye'!
YIKES! Your Mom accidently called your new guy by your ex's name and blames:
A. You, because she says that you speak about him all the time!
B. Herself.
C. Her age, but manages to ease up the tension.
Do you hold onto his belongings/gifts for the sake of sentiment?
A. Yes I do. What we shared was so memorable.
B. I got rid of some of it. It was tough but I knew it had to be done.
C. Nope, I put it all in the bin. I don't see the point of keeping it; I've moved on and I'm quite happy!
You're Done!
Mostly As: Too involved
There's still too much connection between you and your ex. If either of you are involved in a new relationship this could cause trouble in your relationship. There's no need to be enemies, but try to break the bond a little and give each other space to move on.
You're Done!
Mostly Bs: Almost there
Even though you might still be feeling something for your ex, you are making every effort to walk away. It is quite a challenge, but it is definitely possible. For inspiration, think of what awaits you when you let go completely. Good luck!
You're Done!
Mostly Cs: Nothing there!
Without a doubt, you can say that you've cut all ties with your ex. You have no hard feelings but do not feel the need to keep tabs on him or stay in contact. Good going!